Relationships.
They are something we see and feel everywhere around us all the time. Relationships can exist in any form, between anyone and anything. There is no limit to relationships. They are limitless. They can make you do the craziest, strangest, weirdest and sweetest of things. People can go upto any extent to keep or break relationships.
But have you ever thought for how long can a relationship last.? Have you thought what is the life span or expiry date of a relationship (let it be any, then).? Well, I think every relationship is meant to end, it is meant to cease. Nothing lasts forever. Everything has an expiry date. A relationship too.
In the initial stage, you love everything about the person or thing you're attached to. After a point, you start to like the same things and eventually with time, you start to hate them. 'Love' changes into 'like', and then gets converted into 'hate'. It sort of becomes a love-hate relationship then. Once you enter that phase, the phase where hatred occurs, you have to either decide to stay with it or leave it. If you choose to leave, to walk away, you're a free bird. You're back on track, leading your life your own way. But if you choose to stay, you're trapped in the cage of compromises and adjustments. At one point you feel like leaving, you just want to run away. And at the other, you feel stuck up. That's because you are so used to them that you get scared and start thinking that your life would be nothing without them in it. You feel you won't be able to do anything without them, you won't be able to survive.
But the fact is something else. There's nothing or no-one you can't survive without. Ofcourse, except the essential elements of nature. You're dependent on no human or material. It's just a psychology that we humans are trapped in. We always need someone or something with us to feel supported, loved, cared for. And to fulfill this need, we tend to let go of what we actually want. All of our life is wasted in search of it, in search of something we ourselves choose to leave for something we need.
It goes in search of 'The feeling of Freedom'.
Dhagedu..Well, what do I say about her..!
She's one of the few most important and reliable people I have with me. A tiny little girl who has a lot of love in her huge heart. Ofcourse we have had our ups and downs, but never could we let go of each other. No matter what happened between us but in the end, we stood together. Always.
We have spent the best of our times together talking about ourselves, bitching (umm, not bitching actually. We had no time or interest for that.!), hunting for good looking guys, eating out, going to college but not attending a single lecture (we hardly had 2 lectures in a week), going to Dumas earl in the morning to have bhajiyas, sitting at the ovara with our cups of tea/coffee (tea for me, coffee for her), going to our thesis guide for discussions, and much more of such stuff. We have been the queens of madness when together. Anyone who would hear our conversations or observe us closely, would say we were crazy ladies who had nothing else to do in life.!
When we were in college, I never thought how it would be without her; how life would be without her (not literally, ofcourse). Now that we're graduates and we do not meet up on regular basis, I realise how amazing were those times when we were together almost 24x7. We have both turned into working women, staying in different cities. Ofcourse we now meet very often, talk less, chat less.
Though we are not much in touch, I can always feel a connection with her, constant and true. I can feel the bond that was once created. I can feel the silent promise we made, a promise that says we'll always be there for each other. We are like soul sisters. The relationship that we share can not be described in words. All I can say is that the bond will stay forever. We will stay forever.!
"Love you Dhagedu..!!"
